Unpopular opinion: I stopped going to those big generic networking mixers in Buckhead.

For years, I'd force myself to go to those huge, loud events at places like the Georgian Terrace, handing out cards and getting nowhere. Last fall, I started showing up to the 7:30 AM volunteer shifts at the Atlanta Community Food Bank warehouse instead. I met more genuine, helpful people in two months of stacking cans than I did in two years of cocktail hours. Has anyone else found that ditching the 'official' networking scene for a shared task works better?

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danielowens11d ago

My networking is mostly just talking to the barista who knows my order.

luna26111d ago

Yeah, it's like you see who people really are when they're just doing a job. The mixer crowd is always putting on a show.

henry_anderson5411d ago

I read a study once that said about 70% of people act totally different at work parties than in their normal day. It really backs up what you're saying, luna261. The pressure to be seen as fun or connected makes people put on a whole different face. You see the quiet guy from accounting trying way too hard to be the life of the party. It feels less real than just watching someone fix a printer or do their actual job. In my view, the regular work day shows you who is actually reliable and kind.