A friend called my usual 3-day loop 'a forced march' and it made me rethink everything

I've been doing the same 20 mile loop in the White Mountains for years, pushing hard to finish in three days. Last fall, a buddy came along and halfway through day two he said, 'Dude, this feels like a forced march. We're just ticking off miles.' That hit me. I realized I was so focused on the route and the finish that I was missing the point. I changed it up this spring, stretched the same loop to five days, and spent a whole afternoon just sitting by a creek I always rushed past. Do you think a route is about covering ground, or about the experience along the way?

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wesleyfox27d ago

Honestly, covering the ground is the whole point. You set a goal and you meet it, that's the real satisfaction. Stopping to stare at a creek just turns a solid hike into aimless camping.

ninar6826d ago

Remember feeling the same way as wesleyfox, always pushing for the summit. Then I twisted my ankle bad on a trail because I was rushing. Had to sit by this little waterfall for an hour waiting for help. Honestly, watching the light change on the rocks and just listening, it changed my whole thing. Now I build in time to just stop, maybe skip a stone, and it makes finishing the hike feel richer, not just a checked box.

grace_kelly4526d ago

Seriously? My friend missed a bear cub by the creek...

the_mary8d ago

Hot take: The creek is the point. Oh man, this whole thing really hits home. That "forced march" feeling is the worst... I've been there, just head down trying to beat some clock I made up. What's the rush? @wesleyfox gets that solid goal feeling, but for me, finishing just feels empty if I didn't actually see anything along the way. That afternoon by the creek sounds perfect. You found the real win.