My manager pulled me aside last Thursday and said my 'kitchen face' was scaring the new hire

I didn't even realize I was doing it, but apparently my concentration scowl looks like I'm about to fire someone. How do you manage your 'resting work face' in a high-stress job?

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danielowens9d ago

Got the same feedback years ago when I was wiring a tricky panel. Started making a point to say "just thinking" out loud when I caught myself scowling. It sounds silly, but it reminds your face to relax and clues others in. What's one small thing you could try this week?

blake_owens9d ago

Just thinking" is a good trick. My version is muttering "not mad, just dumb" under my breath.

gray_hall49d ago

Love that "not mad, just dumb" line. Might start adding "just a broken brain puzzle" when I'm staring at code.