Update: I thought being super nice was the only way to handle a difficult client, but a freelancer in Seattle told me she lost a $5k project because she was too agreeable and didn't set clear rules from the start. | Client Nightmares - Freelance Forum - The Community for Independent Professionals
Update: I thought being super nice was the only way to handle a difficult client, but a freelancer in Seattle told me she lost a $5k project because she was too agreeable and didn't set clear rules from the start.
Has anyone else found that being too flexible actually makes a bad situation worse, and what's a good first step to setting those boundaries without sounding mean?
I used to think bending over backwards was just good customer service. After a client kept asking for "one more tiny change" for two extra months, I finally got it. Now my first email has three bullet points about revision limits and payment schedules. It feels awkward but it saves so much time.
Five grand? That seems like a really specific number. I've had clients push deadlines but I just stopped answering emails after a certain point. Never ended up paying me extra or anything crazy like that. Feels like a lot of freelancers get caught up in the worst case scenario stories.