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maryr43•4d ago

How a fight at my book club in Portland changed how I pick reads

Last month at our Portland book club, two members got into a heated argument about whether the main character in our novel was actually a hero. It got so loud the host almost called it off early. I'm wondering if anyone else has had a book pick cause real tension in their group and how you handled it?

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xena_hernandez98•4d ago

I finally dropped my love for over-the-top prose

A member in my group said my writing felt 'trying too hard' and gave me a direct example of how I could simplify a paragraph. It stung, but after rewriting that section with shorter sentences I saw how much clearer the story became. Has anyone else had to humble themselves after a harsh critique?

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wade_anderson•4d ago

$80 on a "rare" signed first edition from eBay

Turned out to be a laser-printed forgery. The seller ghosted me after I confronted them. Has anyone actually had luck authenticating books before buying online?

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lilyt23•6d ago

Shoutout to my book club for proving me wrong on genre fiction

I used to be one of those people who only read literary fiction (you know, the kind that wins awards). My book club picked a sci-fi novel last month called The Space Between Worlds and I rolled my eyes so hard. But after reading it I realized genre stuff can have just as much depth and complex characters. Has anyone else's book club changed your mind about a type of book you thought you hated?

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kelly_rivera•6d ago

Wednesday I walked into a book club debate about non-fiction vs fiction and it totally shifted my stance

I've always been a fiction-only reader. But last Wednesday, my book club had a massive debate about whether non-fiction counts as 'real' reading for our monthly picks. One member brought up a specific example: she read Educated by Tara Westover last month and said it changed how she sees education. Another person argued that good non-fiction is just as crafted and narrative-driven as a novel. By the end of the night, I actually agreed to pick a non-fiction title for next month. Has anyone else switched teams on something after a heated club discussion?

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anthonyrivera•7d ago

Update: I used to hate audiobooks but a 12 hour drive changed my mind

I drove from Denver to Moab last month for a camping trip. 10 hours each way. I grabbed a copy of Project Hail Mary on audio because I ran out of podcasts. By hour 4 I was completely hooked. The narrator did different voices for the alien and it made the story way more fun than reading it on a page. I got back and told my book club I wanted to add audiobooks to our monthly picks. Has anyone else had a book work better as audio than in print?

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sanchez.julia•10d ago

Overheard a librarian say something that changed how I pick books

I was at the library last Tuesday waiting to check out and I heard one of the librarians tell a patron 'if you don't like a book by page 50, put it down and grab something else.' That hit me hard because I always force myself to finish books even when I hate them. My book club has been stuck on this dense historical novel for three weeks and nobody likes it but we keep reading because we feel obligated. I brought up what the librarian said at our meeting last night and everyone agreed to drop it and pick a new book. We picked up a thriller called 'The Last Flight' and finished it in two days. Has anyone else ever felt bad about quitting a book mid-way?

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cora_west5•13d ago

The book club pick about a topic I hated actually changed my whole view

Last month our club picked a nonfiction book about colonial history and I was ready to skip it. After the third chapter I realized the author was telling stories from the ground level not just dates and names. Has anyone else had a book they dreaded turn out to be their favorite of the year?

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nancyramirez•14d ago

TIL that choosing the hardcover over the paperback for book club was a mistake

Last month I had to pick between the $32 hardcover of the book we're reading or the $15 paperback. I went with hardcover because it looks nice on my shelf. Showed up to the meeting and everyone else had paperbacks with dog-eared pages and sticky notes sticking out. They were all talking about specific passages while I was still flipping through pristine pages looking for the quote. The group leader said "oh you got the fancy version" and nobody asked to borrow mine. Next time I'm just getting the cheap one like everyone else. Anyone else pick the wrong format for their group?

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evan_grant70•15d ago

That library in Portland split our book club in half over a simple rule change

I visited the Multnomah County Library last month for our monthly meetup. The debate got heated when half of us wanted to limit picks to books under 400 pages for faster turnover, and the other half swore it kills depth. We were literally shouting over the stacks near the fiction aisle on the 2nd floor. Which side would you take on page limits for book club reads?

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william_craig7•15d ago

Bought a $35 used copy of Infinite Jest and it sat on my nightstand for 8 months before I cracked it open

That book is so dense I spent the first 3 hours just flipping back to the footnotes, and now I am wondering if I should have just watched the movie instead.

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garcia.cameron•17d ago

Went to a book club meetup at a local indie shop and nobody had read the book

I showed up to the discussion on 'Project Hail Mary' at Books & Brews in Portland last Tuesday and out of 12 people, only 3 had finished it. The host spent 20 minutes summarizing the plot for everyone else while the rest of us just sat there. By the time we actually talked about the science and characters, our hour was almost up. Does your club have a rule about finishing the book, or do people just wing it?

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the_elizabeth•18d ago

Debate: should a book club read the movie adaptation before or after the original book?

My book club is split right down the middle on this. Half of us think you read the book first so you can form your own opinions without the movie coloring things. The other half says watch the movie first because it's shorter and gets everyone on the same page quicker, then the book adds depth. We tried it both ways now and I'm still not sure which works better. What do you all do in your clubs?

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lisas78•19d ago

Fixed my book club's debate over pacing with a simple timer trick

We've been stuck for months arguing about whether to read 50 pages a week or 100. People either felt rushed or bored. Last week I tried setting a 20 minute timer for discussion before anyone could complain about pace. It actually worked. Now we actually talk about the book instead of the schedule. Has anyone else tried a weird rule that broke a deadlock?

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laura_wilson•20d ago

Wasted $45 on that fancy book light everyone raves about

I bought that clip-on book light with the warm tone setting for my book club reads, but it died after three uses and the battery won't hold a charge. Anyone else get burned by a hyped-up reading accessory and regret the purchase?

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wells.evan•20d ago

Shoutout to the lady at my first book club who called me out for talking too much

Back at a meetup in Denver five years ago, she just said 'let someone else finish a thought for once' and I didn't realize how much I dominated the conversation. Has anyone else had a moment where someone's blunt honesty actually helped you listen better?

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craig.parker•21d ago

The day I realized I was reading the wrong chapters first in my book club...

I used to just plow through novels from page one, but last month I started reading the final chapter of our book club pick before anything else. It totally changed how I saw the clues and character arcs leading up to it, like I was solving a puzzle instead of just following a story. Has anyone else tried skipping around in a book and found it made the discussion way more interesting?

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adam414•22d ago

Dropped $90 on a 'vintage' book club edition of Dune that fell apart on page 12

Binding literally cracked open and pages rained out like confetti. Now I'm stuck with a $90 pile of paper and the library copy I should've just borrowed. Anyone else get burned trusting those old book club dust jackets?

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fisher.jessica•22d ago

That 150th page just hit me different

I was totally against the whole 'page count matters' argument in our club, but when I hit page 150 of The Secret History last week and realized I had gasped out loud three times, I finally got why some books need that length to pull you under. Has anyone else passed a random page number and suddenly understood an argument you'd been fighting against?

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martinez.paul•23d ago

Can we talk about how 'The Catcher in the Rye' is actually not that deep?

I read it again last month for our book club and I kept waiting for some big meaning to hit me. But honestly, it's just a kid complaining for 200 pages about phonies and not doing anything. I found a stat online that said over 65 million copies have sold, so clearly I'm in the minority. Am I missing something or does anyone else think it's overrated?

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stella111•23d ago

I was dead set against audiobooks for years, but a 14 hour drive to Dallas changed my mind

For like 5 years I told everyone audiobooks weren't real reading. Thought it was cheating basically. Then I had to drive from Houston to Dallas for a family thing and grabbed a free trial of Audible on a whim. Listened to Project Hail Mary on the way up and back. Got so into it I sat in the driveway for 20 minutes finishing a chapter. Now I do about 3 audiobooks a month along with my physical books. So which side are you on - is listening to a book the same as reading it or is it different?

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joseph_bailey•23d ago

My sister told me to skip the last chapter of our book club pick

For our last read, 'The Silent Patient', my sister flat out said, 'Don't read the last ten pages until the meeting.' I thought she was nuts and read it anyway. At the debate, everyone who followed her advice had a way better talk about themes and motives, while the rest of us just argued about the twist. Has anyone else tried hiding the ending to get a better club chat?

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angela728•24d ago

Our book club's 'The Goldfinch' debate got so heated someone almost walked out

It started over whether Boris was a true friend or just a toxic user, and my friend Karen from the group texted me later saying she needed 'a week to cool off'. Has your group ever had a fight that nearly broke it up?

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skyler_johnson32•27d ago

Our book club spent two meetings arguing about whether a character's choice was realistic

We read a novel where the main person leaves their family, and half the group said it was unbelievable while the other half defended it. It took us over three hours total to finally agree to disagree and move on. Has your group ever gotten stuck on a single character's decision for that long?

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kimr91•27d ago

I finally understood why my book club picks kept getting voted down

Someone in my group last week said I always suggest 'important' books that feel like homework, and they just want something fun to talk about. So I picked a thriller for next month, and people actually seemed excited. Has anyone else had to switch up their suggestion style to get a book chosen?